Resolve it your way - no judge required
Out of Court Mediaton Services
Mediation is a voluntary and confidential process in which a neutral third party, known as a mediator, helps two or more parties in conflict communicate and negotiate to reach a mutually acceptable resolution.Out of Court Mediation Services LLC helps individuals and families, landlords and tenants, HOA boards and neighbors, businesses and consumers, and employers resolve conflicts quickly, affordably, and privately—without ever stepping foot in a courtroom. We provide a neutral space where all voices are heard, and real solutions can be reached.You can maintain control of the outcome, avoid excessive legal fees, save time, and reduce stress with Out of Court Mediation Services LLC.Resolve it your way – no judge required
Why Choose Mediation Over Going to Court?
⚖️ Faster & More Affordable
Mediation is usually completed in a few hours or a single day — no waiting months for court dates. It’s also a fraction of the cost of litigation.
🔒 Private & Confidential
Everything done in mediation is private. This protects your reputation and won’t show up in public records — helping to preserve future employment and housing opportunities.
🧠 Creative, Customized Solutions
Judges follow the law and prior agreements. In mediation, you can get creative and craft flexible, win-win solutions.
🛠️ Detailed, Real-Life Agreements
Mediation agreements go beyond legal conclusions by including payment timelines, communication guidelines, and other specific actions — which courts leave out.
📝 You’re in Control — 100%
Unlike in court, you decide every detail with mediation. That means more buy-in, compliance, and lasting peace.
✅ Legally Enforceable in Missouri & Kansas
If it's needed for your situation, mediation agreements become legally binding and enforceable once filed with the court.
Services
Small Claims cases, including simple civil disputes seeking monetary damages.
Real estate matters, including lease (dis)agreements, seller's disclosure issues, landlord and tenant disputes, contractor performance, pre-eviction issues, and purchase contracts.
HOA matters, including architectural and design guidelines, non-payment of assessments, noise and nuisance issues, violation of rules and regulations, neighbor conflicts, and board governance and decision-making.
Estate matters, including disagreements over asset distribution, and executor or personal representative issues.
Family matters, including family disputes over money and property, as well as parenting and child visitation plans, and property division.
Employment matters, including simple disputes between employees or employee and employer.
How It Works
1. Complete a short Pre-Mediation Questionnaire
A few quick questions help me understand your situation and goals.2. Schedule your free 15-minute consultation
We'll discuss your goals, make sure mediation is the right fit, and walk through what the process looks like.3. Book your session
You'll receive a service agreement and clear quote. Most mediations are completed in a single session, and costs are typically shared evenly between parties. Once booked, you'll start working with a neutral professional to find common ground.4. Resolve it your way
If both parties reach an agreement, I’ll document it clearly so you can move forward with confidence and closure.Fast. Affordable. Confidential.
About Ellen Barnes
My path to mediation began with two deeply personal experiences. The first was a challenge faced with my husband in our real estate leasing and lending business—one that left me feeling frustrated and unheard. (Don’t worry—we figured it out. Prayer works!) The second was walking alongside my niece as she navigated the emotional toll of an unexpected divorce after 17 years of marriage. Supporting her as she prepared for her mediation session was a turning point for me.During that season, I had been praying about how to use my time and skills in early retirement. Through these experiences, I felt a clear calling: support people in finding peace and closure in the midst of conflict—so they can move on with their lives.As a neutral and impartial third party, I’m here to support you. I’ll take care of the process so you can focus on finding a lasting solution.Resolve it your way - no judge required
Attorney vs. Non-Attorney Mediator
Why it Matters
Mediation is a problem‑solving conversation, not a legal battle.
It's a skilled, neutral guide helping you draft a resolution that works. (That's me!)
Attorney‑mediators must also stay neutral and cannot offer legal advice — though their fees are often set at attorney rates.
What's the Difference
| Attorney Mediator | Non-Attorney Mediator...that's me! |
|---|---|
| ❌ Cannot give legal advice during mediation! So why pay for it? | ❌ Also cannot give legal advice |
| 💰 $350 – $500+ per hour (Other charges may apply) | 💸 More affordable option |
| 🎓 Legal background + Optional mediation training | 🎓 Business background + Trained in mediation |
| 🏛 Often court-focused and formal | 💡 Practical, people-first approach |
| ✅ Can be Court-approved | ✅ Court-approved: Missouri & Kansas |
Let's Talk
EMAIL: [email protected]
TEXT: 816-226-8817Serving Missouri and Kansas
- Core & Domestic Mediations
- MO Supreme Court Rule 17 Neutral
- KS Supreme Court Approved Dispute Resolution Provider
- US District Court, Western District of MO-Category I List of Neutrals
- M.A.R.C.H. Approved MediatorResolve it your way — no judge required
Disclaimer:
The information on this website is for general purposes only and does not constitute a binding agreement. Out of Court Mediation Services LLC may modify or discontinue any services, rates, or policies at any time without notice. Scheduling a consultation does not guarantee availability or case acceptance. Final terms and fees will be confirmed in writing before mediation begins.